Wedding Etiquette In The Age Of Social Media

Social media remains an integral part of daily life for younger generations. For couples who grew up in the age of popular social sharing sites like Twitter, Facebook and Instagram, bringing the online world into their wedding planning is a natural reaction to their constant social media connectivity. When small events in the day are worthy of an update, a milestone as large as a wedding serves as the magnum opus of social media relevancy.

Social sharing and wedding planning, however, don’t always mix well. Wedding planning and the details of the big day often remain subject to certain rules of etiquette. The rules become blurred when sharing online, but there still remains a proper protocol especially as it replies to taking the wedding into the social media realm.

There are lines online that should not and cannot be crossed via social media. While many rules apply to the wedding party, guests are subject to their own set of social guidelines. There are rules of conduct that must not be breached online or in person, and then there are guidelines that apply only to the social media realm.

Follow these simple rules of etiquette when incorporating social media into wedding planning:

For the Bride & Groom:

Request permission from professional photographers before posting any professional pictures online. Most photographers own the copyrights to their photos. Respect the copyright.

Do not share details about wedding registries via social media. Etiquette dictates that word of mouth is the best way to share registry details. Guests should inquire about registries, they should not be told.

Like gift registries, money requests in lieu of gifts should not be promoted via social media. Word of mouth, again, is the proper method to ensure guests know that gifts of cash would be preferred. Also, do not promote sites that solicit funds for a Honeymoon through any social media platform. Links to such sites may be listed on a wedding web site instead.


Thank you notes should be hand written, not emailed.

If guests are encouraged to snap shots of the ceremony, set up an online photo sharing site where all snapshots may be uploaded. Candid shots by guests capture the best memories…be sure to save them.

 For the Wedding Party:

Bridesmaids and groomsmen should not post wedding day selfies or pictures online without consent of the bride and/or groom. Imagine the bride’s dress being photographed and posted online before walking down the aisle…and having the groom see it on social media first. All members of the wedding party should discuss any picture posting rules before the wedding date.


Posting pictures of debauchery at bachelor and/or bachelorette parties are unnecessary and embarrassing. They might even cost someone a job. Think twice before posting any questionable photographs…no matter how humorous.

Sending updates on the wedding day about any wedding mishap. Small details that go awry can lead into huge meltdowns. Don’t post anything about problems…no matter how miniscule.

Refrain from posting updates about the wedding details. Again, all details should be shared only by the bride and/or groom.

For Guests:

Check with the wedding hosts to inquire about snapping photos during the ceremony or the reception. Some couples prefer that guests not take photos.

Do not request the bride and/or groom to pose for photos. The day is long and overwhelming for them. Respect the boundaries.

Like the wedding party, guests should not upload photos or post any updates regarding wedding details, preparations, etc. Some details should remain private.

Unsure where the couple is registered? Ask! Word of mouth is the best way to find out about registries. Also inquire about a wedding web site, which usually has a host of other information for guests.

Turn off or silence phones during the ceremony and the reception.

Social media has provided a new avenue to share wedding photos, special details and other memories from the ceremony and the reception. However, there are rules and proper etiquette to follow when incorporating social media into wedding planning. Remember: just because something can be posted online, doesn’t mean it SHOULD be posted online…otherwise, the something blue might just be the entire mood of the wedding day.


BBQ The Perfect Steak – Recipe Included

BBQ - delicious, flavourful, tender, mesquite, heat, outdoors, friends and family, these are the words that come to mind when we think of a BBQ. Let’s consider the various things you should do before you BBQ the perfect steak.

It is important to allow your steak to reach room temperature, this helps to BBQ a steak faster and more evenly. Just before you grill, brush Olive Oil on both sides and season your steak with black pepper and kosher salt, be generous, seasoning is entirely a personal preference so you can get fancy if you want.

Preheat the grill as hot as it will go before putting on your steaks. Place each steak on the grill for one minute then turn and grill on the second side for an additional minute. Some BBQ’s have a searing section and this is the perfect opportunity to try it out. After searing, turn down your BBQ to a medium heat, or move steaks to the indirect heat side of your charcoal grill to finish cooking. Make sure to turn and rotate your steak 45 degrees and grill for half the remaining cooking time turning over only once on the other side for the remaining time to get a nice diamond pattern of grill marks.

Remove your steak from the BBQ when it has reached your desired doneness. You can use the pressure test to check your steak by using your index finger, press down on the middle of your steak, a rare steak will be soft, a medium steak will be firm but will spring back up, a well done steak will be firm with no spring.

Another important trick is to let the steaks rest for 5 minutes before serving. This will allow the natural juices to flow out from the center and redistribute the moisture, leaving you with a perfect, juicy steak, cover with foil to keep warm.

While NY steaks can be seasoned and grilled, other meats, which aren’t as tender, such as flank steak or flat iron steaks need to be marinated a day in advance. Allow the meat to marinate overnight in the fridge. When ready to barbecue remove from marinade, season, and barbecue until desired doneness.

A BBQ wouldn’t be complete without the Old Mill Toronto’s favourite BBQ sauce recipe to enhance your meat. The great thing about this sauce is its versatility, as it goes well with a lot of different proteins such as chicken, wings, quail, ribs, and pork.

BBQ Sauce -

• 1 Bottle of ketchup / 2 cups

• 1 tsp. of mustard seeds

• 5 cloves garlic chopped

• 1 tsp. oregano

• 3 oz of chipotle peppers in adobe sauce 

• 1 oz of packed brown sugar

• 1 Medium Spanish onion chopped

Cook the onions until slightly caramelized, add the garlic and continue cooking until a nice aroma presents itself (approx 1-2 minutes) add brown sugar and cook until you reach a nice deep brown colour. Add the remaining ingredients and bring to a boil, reduce the heat and simmer for 15-20 minutes. Let the mixture cool and blend well using a hand held immersion blender or a standard blender and blend until smooth. 

The next time you have friends and family over for a BBQ  keep these suggestions in mind and your guests will be happy and satisfied. Happy barbecuing!

Grilled Shrimp with Citrus Aioli

Perfect summer appetizer that pairs well with a chilled glass of white wine. The citrus dipping sauce is quite refreshing. Use a variety of citrus fruit or use 1-1/2 tsp of grated rind and 1tbsp juice of either orange, lemon or lime.

Serves 4
12 oz. (340 g) raw jumbo shrimp, peeled and deveined
2 tsp (10 ml) extra virgin olive oil
1/4 tsp (1 ml) ground cumin
Pinch each of cayenne pepper and salt

Citrus Aioli:
1/3 cup (75 ml) light mayonnaise
1/2 tsp (2 ml) grated lemon rind 
1/2 tsp (2 ml) grated lime rind 
1/2 tsp (2 ml) grated orange rind  
1 small clove garlic, minced
1 pinch cayenne pepper

Citrus Aioli: In a small bowl, whisk together mayonnaise, orange, lemon and lime rinds and juices, garlic and pepper. (Make-ahead: Refrigerate in air-tight container for up to 2 days).

In a bowl, combine shrimp, oil, cumin, cayenne pepper and salt. Place shrimp on greased grill over medium-high heat; close lid and grill, turning once, until shrimp are pink and opaque, about 4 minutes. Transfer to a plate; refrigerate until cold. (Make-ahead: Refrigerate in air-tight container for up to 2 days). Skewer with toothpicks and serve with Citrus Aioli.

Simply Delicious!


Team Building For Your Meetings & Events


In order to work effectively as a team, it is essential to improve communication, motivation, creativity, problem-solving skills and trust among team members. Team building is any activity that enhances interpersonal relationships and communication  among members of a team.

Planning a meeting infused with a team building perspective, improves motivation and job satisfaction. An interactive and challenging Team Building activity, provides people with time together, time to get to know one another and build a shared history, providing a relaxed environment to feel comfortable in sharing their ideas and ultimately improve work quality and productivity as good communication leads to efficiency.

Team Building is the perfect addition to any meeting agenda, improving energy levels that transform ordinary everyday meetings into extraordinary experiences. Improving your  meetings with engaging activities will surprise your team, so let your next meeting  be one that co-workers actually want to attend, make a big impact on your team, and get people talking afterwards. 

 A team that works well together is more effective, more productive, and more successful, not to mention motivated and more fun to work with because they feel recognized.

Infuse your Old Mill Toronto meeting or event with positive energy by integrating unique Team Building or Wellness and Team Bonding Programs into your agenda. These one-of-a-kind experiences take full advantage of the spectacular indoor and outdoor settings at the Old Mill Toronto. Take your meetings to the next level by fostering effective relationships, elevating moral, and making your Old Mill Toronto experience unforgettable!

Your Skin Will Thank You For It!

Coola is a mineral sunscreen that can be found at the Spa at Old Mill Toronto. Mind you it’s hard to keep on the shelves these days as this product is simply amazing and ideal for all skin types and tones, including those that are especially sensitive. Ditch the heavy foundations and powders this summer and try a tinted moisturizer instead, your skin will thank you for it!


Keep the sun and environment at bay with this SPF 20 broad-spectrum UVA/UVB sunscreen, a tinted, light Rose scented, Titanium Dioxide based formula (for those who are Zinc sensitive) made with 98% natural ingredients. Organic Acai Oil – high in Omegas-3/6/9, Vitamins B1/2/3, plus antioxidant Vitamins C and E – delivers a powerful defense against aging. Organic Sunflower Seed Extract promotes elasticity while organic Linseed Oil, containing Alpha-Linolenic Acids, reduces redness and irritation. The phyto-protector Plankton Extract rejuvenates, as organic Cucumber Extract calms skin.

  • Hypoallergenic
  • Paraben Free
  • Ultra Sheer
  • Antioxidant Enriched
  • Water Resistant (40 minutes)
  • No nano-sized particles

Organic Ingredients
Cucumber Fruit Extract
Linseed Seed Oil
Orange Fruit Water
Safflower Seed Oil
Sunflower Seed Extract

COOLA’s Farm to Face approach describes their sourcing methods for local organic ingredients. They believe in sourcing many of their ingredients and vendors locally to promote communities and jobs as well as to cut down on shipping costs both financially and environmentally. In addition, they can use their platform to encourage and sustain local and organic farming! (And we think that’s pretty COOLA!)


 So…is there anything you can do to promote your local community as well as get healthy, nutritious produce? YES! You can buy your produce locally in your own community. By making these purchases you are selecting to choose local, traceable, eco-friendly, and natural food, which is better for you, your family, and the environment. Some other benefits include higher nutritional value, better taste, and a smaller carbon footprint.

Where to find local produce in your neighborhood 

  •     Natural, whole food markets and organic food stores
  •     A Share Program (or CSA- Community Supported Agriculture)
  •     Farmer’s Markets
  •    In your own garden!

Give your skin an immediate line-smoothing finish and fight signs of aging caused by the sun with this antioxidant-infused Farm to Face® sourced broad spectrum SPF mineral sunscreen.

Tomato Feta Basil Salad

This tomato, feta, basil salad is easy to make and it’s a simply delicious Summer salad that everyone will enjoy! Pairs great when served with a crunchy fresh baguette…mmmm

Recipe (serves 6-8)

3 pints (6 cups cherry tomatoes)
3/4 pound Feta Cheese
1 small diced red onion
3 Tbs. white wine vinegar
1/4 good olive oil
1 tsp. Kosher salt
1/2 Tsp. ground black pepper 
2 Tbs. fresh chopped basil
2 Tbs. fresh chopped parsley 

Cut the tomatoes in half and place in a large bowl. Add the onion, vinegar, olive oil, salt and pepper, basil and parsley to the tomatoes in the bowl. Toss together well. Dice the feta in 1/4 inch pieces, try not to crumble. Gently fold the feta into the salad and serve at room temperature.